Lovely photo of yourself Nice to see a smiling face on TP , humor smiles keep us all going its a good remedy , coping skill
I would of thought that of my mother she would of got depress, because of the shame back in the time , before it started to happen , but she just gets angry with herself , so depending on how I handle it, she would also get angry with me .
she did not like me bringing attention to it , so would hide her Nickers if she wet them bless her she must of felt shame ,. So I would say that we all leak sometimes , told her wear a panty liner , so slowly the panty liners got thicker .
So when nurse told me to put her into one of those space ship Nappy or Nickers that are Nappy , Mum was not having it and I don't blame her .
Thinking of it .. Its better to get angry let it all out screaming in a pillow is a good way to express anger .
because keeping it all that anger in can turn into depression.
May be thats why my mother never got depressed about it .
she did get irrational thoughts thinking people will know she wearing them as she still mobile go to day center , but after a while she got use to them . They so discreet , they no how to handle it , without upsetting mum as she has mess herself one time . Must of been a tummy bug
I think the shame of it will send him into a terrible depression when it comes to that point.
I would of thought that of my mother she would of got depress, because of the shame back in the time , before it started to happen , but she just gets angry with herself , so depending on how I handle it, she would also get angry with me .
she did not like me bringing attention to it , so would hide her Nickers if she wet them bless her she must of felt shame ,. So I would say that we all leak sometimes , told her wear a panty liner , so slowly the panty liners got thicker .
So when nurse told me to put her into one of those space ship Nappy or Nickers that are Nappy , Mum was not having it and I don't blame her .
Thinking of it .. Its better to get angry let it all out screaming in a pillow is a good way to express anger .
because keeping it all that anger in can turn into depression.
May be thats why my mother never got depressed about it .
she did get irrational thoughts thinking people will know she wearing them as she still mobile go to day center , but after a while she got use to them . They so discreet , they no how to handle it , without upsetting mum as she has mess herself one time . Must of been a tummy bug
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