You know what my mother diabetic getting out of control , her legs are very swollen . The nurse tell me to to record a week of her blood sugar level in November 07 then she does not turn up . Then she sends me all the wrong pads , so I tell her , then she says I've got it wrong , says she coming around she never turn up, only when I meet her in supermarket tell her that I am going to complain , does she turn up next day saying that, yes they are the wrong one . keep them till your mother needs them . Then she says she order new one . 4 or 5 Weeks later still no pads arrive . So I email my local PCT make a complain about pads . they send me Email saying they going to look into it , should of added about the diabetic My mother needs continuing nursing care , am Going to phone AZ Society how I go about into doing an assessment to get her it , because I am surly am not getting the support I need from the nurses in my area to help me check on it . All I am worried about is my mother temper in when she has an assessment as anything to do with her diabetic , bring out anger in her . even the AZ day center pick up on it how she sleeping a lot , could it be an urine infection or her diabetic, its like I am going around in a circle as last year they thought it was a urine infection , turn out it was not , even the year before that they thought it was an urine infection, its all down to her diabetic . It just always distresses her so much , that I just think so what if its out of control! but then she could go into a coma or have a heart attack , I could not deal with that . So leave it to the specialist in a nursing home, its just getting the professional to LISTEN to me , Not having my mother dame Doctor telling me I am not looking after my mother rightly , so making me feel guilty . when I have nothing to feel guilty about !