or at the very least an ice cream / large Vodka or something.
Been catching up with all the goss and stuff here, having had a bad week to be honest.
Gemini - know exactly how you feel, havent found the magic spell to make it all go ok but will let you know, in the meantime know that you are not alone and maybe write more cos there's plenty of valuable lessons in what you have to say.
And to everyone else, thank you for keeping us from going totally mad (for now).
Mum had a birthday party the other day, didnt even know it was for her, despite all the cards, flowers and stuff. The other night i was over for a while, and after I'd gone Mum asked my Dad "who was that, nice of them to come over" ... can't help being upset, soft lad that I am, and I know it doesnt get much better either, but how do you good people and full time carers deal with the anger and pent up rage that must come from time to time, do you have a punchbag or just bite your lip, maybe a cat to kick or a large bottle of Vodka to lose yourself in?? What helps....or dont you have the time ...
look after yourselves
TED / DAISY
Been catching up with all the goss and stuff here, having had a bad week to be honest.
Gemini - know exactly how you feel, havent found the magic spell to make it all go ok but will let you know, in the meantime know that you are not alone and maybe write more cos there's plenty of valuable lessons in what you have to say.
And to everyone else, thank you for keeping us from going totally mad (for now).
Mum had a birthday party the other day, didnt even know it was for her, despite all the cards, flowers and stuff. The other night i was over for a while, and after I'd gone Mum asked my Dad "who was that, nice of them to come over" ... can't help being upset, soft lad that I am, and I know it doesnt get much better either, but how do you good people and full time carers deal with the anger and pent up rage that must come from time to time, do you have a punchbag or just bite your lip, maybe a cat to kick or a large bottle of Vodka to lose yourself in?? What helps....or dont you have the time ...
look after yourselves
TED / DAISY