Jack is in respite care for two weeks, I took in clothes for one week, saying that I would do the washing and would bring more in when I collected the dirty ones, Jack is not incontinet and he had seven pair of underpants two pair of pyjamas, two shirts in fact enough for a week, he has been there three days ,when I went in, today all his clothes were gone , no way would he wear seven pair of underpants and two pair of pyjamas in three days.Iasked where they were but no one knew, they found some of them in the laundry, washed, not all the clothes.where did they disapear to?. I have left some more hoping for the best, I wish now he had not gone, my doctor said I needed a rest.so I agreed. He just sits there ,I was promised he would be taken into the garden, as he likes to be outside, as yet my request, still is a request.he asked me to take him home and it made me said that I could let him go in the first place. he is nearly blind very deaf and does not remember things but he rembered enough to say take me home, I think he feel unsafe and lost in the nursing homeand just want to go home.