Good Evening everyone
Dad went into respite care last Tuesday evening (with major trepidation on my part as he went downhill so much the last time we tried respite care.)
Dad last went for a respite break in October. Sad to report that he went in mobile (with frame), continent & feeding himself, but came back to us three weeks later having virtually lost all those skills! Despite visiting him every day he just went down & down, which was heartbreaking.
The last 3 months have been pretty tough going for all of us, but TLC & one-to-one attention has resulted in some improvements. Biggest hurdle has been that Dad has only been sleeping about 1 night in 7 which has left us all totally exhausted. (I didn't realise just how tired I was until I came back home!)
New SW suggested that Dad would be better in a hospital environment for respite to assess him & review medication. Hooray for new SW (she certainly gets my vote!)
Dad went in late on Tuesday last week. Wednesday morning the Consultant suggested withdrawing Memantine & Citalopram to see if that would improve his sleeping patterns & reduce his agitation & they will review again in a weeks time. Early days yet I know - but the difference in Dad is almost unbelievable!!!!
He has now slept 4 nights in a row (unheard of in recent months) and seems so relaxed and happy. Hard to believe that he is the same man! If it does turn out that these tablets were doing him more harm than good - then it's really ironic! I fought long & hard to get him on an Alzheimer's drug (which as it turns out may well have made him worse) and as for the antidepressant, well - he just seems so much more happy & cheerful without them! I guess it just goes to prove that drugs affect different people in different ways.
Dad is feeding himself & walking short distances with assistance (Physio also saw him on Wednesday & has swapped his zimmer frame for a shorter one - which seems to have helped his mobility.)
Will keep you posted (as we all know - after opsting this positive report it could all change tomorrow!) but after such a difficult few months, it's just so nice to have some good news - and I wanted to share it! Mum & I can hopefully get the full benefit of respite this time, knowing that he is being so well cared for.
It's so good to be back on TP (I must try & get a laptop before I move back to Mum & Dad's!)
Just about catching up on various threads now - thinking of you all.
Love
Gill x
Dad went into respite care last Tuesday evening (with major trepidation on my part as he went downhill so much the last time we tried respite care.)
Dad last went for a respite break in October. Sad to report that he went in mobile (with frame), continent & feeding himself, but came back to us three weeks later having virtually lost all those skills! Despite visiting him every day he just went down & down, which was heartbreaking.
The last 3 months have been pretty tough going for all of us, but TLC & one-to-one attention has resulted in some improvements. Biggest hurdle has been that Dad has only been sleeping about 1 night in 7 which has left us all totally exhausted. (I didn't realise just how tired I was until I came back home!)
New SW suggested that Dad would be better in a hospital environment for respite to assess him & review medication. Hooray for new SW (she certainly gets my vote!)
Dad went in late on Tuesday last week. Wednesday morning the Consultant suggested withdrawing Memantine & Citalopram to see if that would improve his sleeping patterns & reduce his agitation & they will review again in a weeks time. Early days yet I know - but the difference in Dad is almost unbelievable!!!!
He has now slept 4 nights in a row (unheard of in recent months) and seems so relaxed and happy. Hard to believe that he is the same man! If it does turn out that these tablets were doing him more harm than good - then it's really ironic! I fought long & hard to get him on an Alzheimer's drug (which as it turns out may well have made him worse) and as for the antidepressant, well - he just seems so much more happy & cheerful without them! I guess it just goes to prove that drugs affect different people in different ways.
Dad is feeding himself & walking short distances with assistance (Physio also saw him on Wednesday & has swapped his zimmer frame for a shorter one - which seems to have helped his mobility.)
Will keep you posted (as we all know - after opsting this positive report it could all change tomorrow!) but after such a difficult few months, it's just so nice to have some good news - and I wanted to share it! Mum & I can hopefully get the full benefit of respite this time, knowing that he is being so well cared for.
It's so good to be back on TP (I must try & get a laptop before I move back to Mum & Dad's!)
Just about catching up on various threads now - thinking of you all.
Love
Gill x