Hi all i am a career for my hubby. Who ues to sit and do not a thing so i join the gym and got him to join with me and he loves it. What i am finding hard is food to give him as he dont ues his knife and fork some days or he will ues his fingers. I know you can give them finger food but he cant have that all the time. I fill sad sometimes he is 69 i tack him out as much as i can so he dont sit and think of things his memory not as good if he not had a good night sleep. so try and get him to bed between 10 and 11 oclock no later.sometimes he gets up about 3am in the morring as he wants food so i do him tea and toast. sometimes he sits up and said were are we or he on the railway track. so this gets me up and he ask if i can see it i say no i cant way dont you lay down and go back to sleep. i have got a book were i writ things down about him. i wish i could do more for him to help he is always telling me he loves me a bit to much but i dont mind as i love him very much. I just need some one to talk to as i dont know much about demenita as he has ealry on set and thats all i know they gave me a book to read about it but it still dont explan it for me.I only work 12 hours now so i am with him all the time and thats all he want at the moment.