Something's been bothering me for a while and I wonder if you good guys and gals can come up with any useful suggestions.
I am my OH's sole carer. He's been getting a two hour sitter once a week although that's not going too well. The planned second visit has failed so far but that's another story. We have no other regular visitors or carers. My own physical health isn't exactly brilliant.
I keep the front door chained and key locked to thwart the escape attempts. My OH can no longer manage to remove the chain is not aware of where the key is.
I've had a thought nadgering away at me that is "What if I was rendered incapable? What if I fell down the stairs or became ill and incapacitated to an extent that I couldn't reach or use the phone? Or even if I could use the phone to call for help how would the Emergency Services enter?".
There's a myriad of scenarios going through my mind where my OH wouldn't have a clue what to. He can't manage the phone. I'm concerned he wouldn't get the care he needs if I'm not up and functioning.
A good friend of mine has a set of duplicate keys and would be able to enter via an indirect route (through full height gates into communal parking area, the garden and then the back door) but how would she know I needed assistance? Also, she's frequently away from home.
I've considered getting one of those key safe doo-dahs outside the front door. But then, who would have the code to open it. They could use the back door route unless a bolt cropper was used on the front door chain. But that still comes back to calling for help in the first place!
Going round in circles here and I'll admit the thoughts driving me to distraction.
I am my OH's sole carer. He's been getting a two hour sitter once a week although that's not going too well. The planned second visit has failed so far but that's another story. We have no other regular visitors or carers. My own physical health isn't exactly brilliant.
I keep the front door chained and key locked to thwart the escape attempts. My OH can no longer manage to remove the chain is not aware of where the key is.
I've had a thought nadgering away at me that is "What if I was rendered incapable? What if I fell down the stairs or became ill and incapacitated to an extent that I couldn't reach or use the phone? Or even if I could use the phone to call for help how would the Emergency Services enter?".
There's a myriad of scenarios going through my mind where my OH wouldn't have a clue what to. He can't manage the phone. I'm concerned he wouldn't get the care he needs if I'm not up and functioning.
A good friend of mine has a set of duplicate keys and would be able to enter via an indirect route (through full height gates into communal parking area, the garden and then the back door) but how would she know I needed assistance? Also, she's frequently away from home.
I've considered getting one of those key safe doo-dahs outside the front door. But then, who would have the code to open it. They could use the back door route unless a bolt cropper was used on the front door chain. But that still comes back to calling for help in the first place!
Going round in circles here and I'll admit the thoughts driving me to distraction.