My mother is 83 and we have noticed, more particularly over the last few months that her memory is getting quite poor. She forgets from one second to the next what she has asked and gets herself into a tizz about very simple jobs. Perhaps the most worrying is she is withdrawing from all her friends and activities she has always done.
I spoke to her and persuaded her to go to the doctor with me and I tried to explain as best I could, but I found it very awkward in front of mum. He asked her a couple of questions like what did she have to eat last night (which she couldn't answer). I wanted to go into her withdrawing but I found it all quite difficult in front of her.
The doctor has asked her to come back for blood tests later this week to test vitamin levels and an ECG.
My concern is really that I may not have got across how mum is to the doctor. Should I do something different? Will the doctor now speak to me direct? Should I write a letter? I am finding the whole thing a minefield of trying to do the right thing without upsetting mum at the same time.
I spoke to her and persuaded her to go to the doctor with me and I tried to explain as best I could, but I found it very awkward in front of mum. He asked her a couple of questions like what did she have to eat last night (which she couldn't answer). I wanted to go into her withdrawing but I found it all quite difficult in front of her.
The doctor has asked her to come back for blood tests later this week to test vitamin levels and an ECG.
My concern is really that I may not have got across how mum is to the doctor. Should I do something different? Will the doctor now speak to me direct? Should I write a letter? I am finding the whole thing a minefield of trying to do the right thing without upsetting mum at the same time.
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