Hi, hope someone can help me , my mam is 81 , no diagnosis ,we are just assuming at the minute it could be Alzheimer's . We can't see a Dr and when I ring reception by the time the Dr rings back my mam says she is fine, my mam has started to ring me every morning as soon as she wakes up to say she feels confused and that she feels like she has another house. I explain she hasn't and that she has lived there for 20 yrs with my dad. This has gone on for a few weeks but now she thinks she has 2 husbands and 2 houses but they look the same, we say she hasn't but now gets angry with me and dad (I don't live with mam and dad) , my dad said he can't agree with her because tonight she said she was ready to go home and had packed a bag ...but obviously she is already home , do we just change the subject ? Or should dad drive round the block and come back so she thinks she is going to the other house