I have to take my husband to hospital today. He has been in his nursing home for nearly 4 weeks and has settled really well but the thought of taking him to hospital has really got me uptight. When he was in the asessment unit he developed cellulitis and the doctor said he had detected a heart murmur so he was referred for some type of echo testing. The Sister at the assessment centre said that sometimes a heart murmur would show when an infection was present and then dissappear when the infection went.
I will be driving him the 20+ miles to hospital with his one to one carer with us. I am just very worried about having a long wait at the hospital, him not understanding what is going on and if he will co-operate when asked to undress. I have not had to deal with him in a hospital for over 12 months and then he was fine but his deteriation in the last 4 months or so has been so drastic I fear the worst. Knowing how I feel about this ordeal, I really am at a loss to know how it will affect my poor husband. I just don't want the settled and happy person he has become returned to the tormented and very unhappy person he was. If only we could just walk in, be seen and walk out but that is not going to happen is it? Wish it was 7pm tonight and it would all be over. The way things are going I may need a couple of incontinence pads for myself before I leave home.
Jay.
I will be driving him the 20+ miles to hospital with his one to one carer with us. I am just very worried about having a long wait at the hospital, him not understanding what is going on and if he will co-operate when asked to undress. I have not had to deal with him in a hospital for over 12 months and then he was fine but his deteriation in the last 4 months or so has been so drastic I fear the worst. Knowing how I feel about this ordeal, I really am at a loss to know how it will affect my poor husband. I just don't want the settled and happy person he has become returned to the tormented and very unhappy person he was. If only we could just walk in, be seen and walk out but that is not going to happen is it? Wish it was 7pm tonight and it would all be over. The way things are going I may need a couple of incontinence pads for myself before I leave home.
Jay.