I feel mentally drained. This afternoon I logged on via a web-cam to check on mum who is still in her own home, and saw a thief take her purse from her coffee table, and make a quick exit past her. I was so shocked I failed to capture the event as I was more concerned to get her on the phone and get her to close her front door to stop him from getting back in. It was 2pm and she was still in a nightie.
The police are involved and they have cctv of the culprit - a man selling table cloths - apparently!
I'm 90 miles away. She can't recall anything now. I'm not looking for answers to questions. I just want to tell someone how utterly helpless the situation is. How you can't protect the ones you love. The world is full of nasty mean people. How no-one has the answer. How no local authority, group, organisation, home, club etc is able to offer a solution to suit our needs. My mum is very independent; came to England as a displaced person after WW2; has suffered and is a survivor; belongs to a shrinking ethnic community where no-one can deal with my mum's illness; she is lonely and vulnerable, and yet I cannot accommodate her in my own home as I and my husband need to work. She doesn't want to come anyway. No idea what to do. I just want to sleep now.
The police are involved and they have cctv of the culprit - a man selling table cloths - apparently!
I'm 90 miles away. She can't recall anything now. I'm not looking for answers to questions. I just want to tell someone how utterly helpless the situation is. How you can't protect the ones you love. The world is full of nasty mean people. How no-one has the answer. How no local authority, group, organisation, home, club etc is able to offer a solution to suit our needs. My mum is very independent; came to England as a displaced person after WW2; has suffered and is a survivor; belongs to a shrinking ethnic community where no-one can deal with my mum's illness; she is lonely and vulnerable, and yet I cannot accommodate her in my own home as I and my husband need to work. She doesn't want to come anyway. No idea what to do. I just want to sleep now.