Mum has been in CH since 1st June. She has gone down hill so fast. I found out today she has become aggressive with the staff and are accusing them of hurting her. She is also very paranoid that the other residents dislike her. My mum used to be so placid and loved by everyone. The GP did an urgent referral back to the hospital but they tell me today nothing they can do. It’s her dementia. “ it’s a terminal illness you know?” Yes thank you I know that. They won’t change her medication and the home tell me they can cope with her. If she was a cancer patient in pain they would try every single drug and do everything to make her comfortable so why don’t they help? I just want to bring her home and hold her hand. No idea when I will see her again. Do I keep fighting or do I just try and let go?