I haven't posted in a while but I know a lot of you will be feeling the exact same way.
I'm finding it really hard not being able to see my Gran as i'm sure a majority of you feel the same way about your loved ones. My Gran had to be detained during lockdown, in May. She's been in hospital since and only my brother has been able to see her from a distance twice at the hospital, she was upset and didn't know what was going on, she seems so much worse since being in hospital, which i expected. I do miss her but i dread phoning her because it really upsets her and then has me feeling down for the rest of the day, i just want to physically see her.
Anyway she got moved to a care home yesterday and we still are not allowed see her, even through a window, they said because "according to guidelines'. Here is Scotland rules changed that from yesterday 3 people could visit from 2 households outside. Since this is not allowed where my Gran is, does this mean there's a Covid outbreak there? Forgive me for being vague its so hard to know what going on sometimes because doing all communicating by phone, things get lost in translation and i'm already an anxious person on the phone.
The way things are going I feel will I ever be able to see her again, just give her a hug, everytime we move forwards Covid just brings it all backwards. As i've been shielding as well I need to wait until everything is safe too. I just feel will this really ever end?
I'm finding it really hard not being able to see my Gran as i'm sure a majority of you feel the same way about your loved ones. My Gran had to be detained during lockdown, in May. She's been in hospital since and only my brother has been able to see her from a distance twice at the hospital, she was upset and didn't know what was going on, she seems so much worse since being in hospital, which i expected. I do miss her but i dread phoning her because it really upsets her and then has me feeling down for the rest of the day, i just want to physically see her.
Anyway she got moved to a care home yesterday and we still are not allowed see her, even through a window, they said because "according to guidelines'. Here is Scotland rules changed that from yesterday 3 people could visit from 2 households outside. Since this is not allowed where my Gran is, does this mean there's a Covid outbreak there? Forgive me for being vague its so hard to know what going on sometimes because doing all communicating by phone, things get lost in translation and i'm already an anxious person on the phone.
The way things are going I feel will I ever be able to see her again, just give her a hug, everytime we move forwards Covid just brings it all backwards. As i've been shielding as well I need to wait until everything is safe too. I just feel will this really ever end?