WIFE has become a widow

Discussion in 'I have a partner with dementia' started by WIFE, Jan 10, 2015.

  1. Pickles53

    Pickles53 Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    2,475
    Radcliffe on Trent
    You have been so brave through the last stages of your husband's suffering. At last he is at peace and I hope that someone is caring for you now as much as you cared for him. My love and sympathy to you and all your family.
     
  2. Tears Falling

    Tears Falling Registered User

    Jul 8, 2013
    637
    So sorry to read that your husband has passed. Sending peace and love for the days ahead x
     
  3. DIANE69

    DIANE69 Registered User

    Jan 7, 2014
    45
    wirral
    I am so sorry.Over the last few months your posts have helped me so much.My Tony passed away last Saturday.My thoughts are with you.All we can do is soldier on and try to make them proud of us.
     
  4. LadyA

    LadyA Registered User

    Oct 19, 2009
    13,540
    Ireland
    Oh dear, dear, Wife - so sorry to hear your news. But like others, so thankful that the last couple of days were peaceful. I hope you have lots of support there. You know we are here - and have our cyber arms around you. But it's not as good as someone being there to support you in the flesh.
     
  5. pony-mad

    pony-mad Registered User

    May 23, 2014
    1,073
    Mid-Wales
    So sorry to hear your sad news Wife.
    Sending love, a big hug and the strength to get you through the days to come.
    Love G x
     
  6. LynneMcV

    LynneMcV Volunteer Moderator

    May 9, 2012
    3,651
    south-east London
    So sorry for your loss. A blessing that he was peaceful. You are in my thoughts and prayers at such a difficult time.
     
  7. Trisha4

    Trisha4 Registered User

    Jan 16, 2014
    2,440
    Yorkshire
    My thoughts are with you Wife


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  8. geum123

    geum123 Registered User

    May 20, 2009
    4,604
    Wife, I'm so very sorry.
    Please accept my condolences. xxxx
     
  9. WIFE

    WIFE Registered User

    May 23, 2014
    856
    WEST SUSSEX
    Just a short up-date and then I'm for my bed at last. My husband's "devoted" sister has already decided which day is best for her Brother's Funeral to fit in with her husband's "shooting" calendar! Organising this Funeral could become a rather bumpy ride - me thinks.

    Thank you so much to your lovely messages - one and all - I have already found such comfort from you lovely people on T.P. Could I mention Diane69 whose husband, Tony passed away last Saturday and send my especial love to her as her boy joins the "party" up above.
     
  10. Saffie

    Saffie Registered User

    Mar 26, 2011
    22,499
    Female
    Near Southampton
    #50 Saffie, Jan 10, 2015
    Last edited: Jan 10, 2015
    My sincere sympathy to you. I' so very sorry that you have lost your husband. It's good that he had peaceful final days and I'm sure that is of some comfort to you.
    I hope arranging the funeral will not cause you too many bumps. It's hard enough to do as it is, without relatives complicating things for you. x
     
  11. garnuft

    garnuft Registered User

    Sep 7, 2012
    6,585
    I'm glad peace was found, I hope the politics of family don't intrude too much upon the mourning.
    Hard times.x
     
  12. Scarlett123

    Scarlett123 Registered User

    Apr 30, 2013
    3,802
    Essex
    I came onto TP, full of self-pity, and then read the title of your thread. Oh, no, not another seat needed Up There for another of our boys. :eek: Pete and John will guide him, my darling, and all the other lads and lasses from TPers, who have passed will help too.

    All of them looking down on their girls, who weep when there are no tears left. :( What a wonderful WIFE you have been! "Devoted" doesn't begin to describe you fighting the spies that invaded your lad's life, and "selfish" doesn't begin to describe your insensitive b*tch of a sister-in-law.

    Three lads joining the gang Up There, in as many weeks. Three midows who have become widows. :(
     
  13. truth24

    truth24 Registered User

    Oct 13, 2013
    5,725
    North Somerset
    So sorry to hear of the sad news of Diane69's loss too and would like to send my sympathy.

    Sent from my GT-N5110
     
  14. jan.s

    jan.s Registered User

    Sep 20, 2011
    7,352
    I am so sorry to read about your loss WIFE, but am glad the end was peaceful for him. Your SIL has strange priorities, but I hope she doesn't cause you too much angst.

    Sleep tight.
     
  15. bluejag69

    bluejag69 Registered User

    Oct 3, 2014
    67
    So sorry wife for your loss, its not a happy new year start for a lot of us on here. Thinking of you, he was lucky to have you caring for him, take care xxx
     
  16. Lindy50

    Lindy50 Registered User

    Dec 11, 2013
    5,239
    Cotswolds
    Me too. She was posting last week and I'm going to look for that thread ...
     
  17. hokeycokey

    hokeycokey Registered User

    Feb 24, 2014
    139
    So sorry WIFE but at least it was peaceful. Hope SiL behaves!
    Thoughts with Diane69 too at this sad time for you both
     
  18. Scarlett123

    Scarlett123 Registered User

    Apr 30, 2013
    3,802
    Essex
    So sorry to hear about the sad loss for Diane 69. So much sadness in the past few weeks. :(
     
  19. Anongirl

    Anongirl Registered User

    Aug 8, 2012
    2,668
    I have no words for your SIL :eek: Well none I can put on TP anyway :mad:

    I'm so sorry for your loss WIFE. It's so hard for those left behind and I find it heartbreaking every time I read of someone being lost.

    As you say, there is certainly a party going on up there recently.

    It's so hard to find words because there really aren't any at a time like this but just know I am thinking of you xxx
     
  20. keywest67

    keywest67 Registered User

    Mar 19, 2012
    169
    Coventry
    WIFE, very sorry to hear of your loss, sending you my condolences and strength at this difficult time x
     

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