im having problems with my grans sister and nieces at the minute .......my gran has dementa and is confused and is unable to make decisions about her future at the minute shes in a nursing home but im hoping to get her home and care for her myself which ive been doing up untill a couple of weeks ago .......the problem is that her sister and nieces seem to think my grans going to get better but i now she isnt ...ive accepted that shes going to get worse ive tried to explain to them that she wont get better but all i get is of cause she'll get better ...im trying to explian that we need to descuss her future but im getting no where ....the thing is we have a meeting with social services in a couple of weeks to decide on my grans future and where she should live ....i really dont think im going to get through to them in time .......i just want whats best for my gran and i know from past convocations what her wishes are ............i just dont know how to get it across to them that she wont get better