I have been reading Margaret W Thread 'Not happy with Care Home', and want to know why our loved ones are treated like this.
We all want our loved ones to be treated with respect and the dignatity they deserve. My mum is 65, in the last stages of AZ (only diagnosed 18mths ago) and about to go into a NH. With everything that I am reading I am dreading it. Especially for my dad he will not be able to deal with things like laundry missing, or be able to afford to keep replacing clothes. Bless him he only ever sees the good in people.
Me & my brother live 100 miles away, and my sister and other brother 50 miles away - I want to know that when she goes into the NH everything will be OK - but that isn't going to happen.
My mum was a carer (albeit for physically handicaped adults), but she always treated them with the respect they deserved. They didn't ask to be in this situation it just happened.
The people caring for them should remember - this could be them one day, and is this how they would want to be treated!!!!!
Sorry, it just makes me so cross.
Debby
We all want our loved ones to be treated with respect and the dignatity they deserve. My mum is 65, in the last stages of AZ (only diagnosed 18mths ago) and about to go into a NH. With everything that I am reading I am dreading it. Especially for my dad he will not be able to deal with things like laundry missing, or be able to afford to keep replacing clothes. Bless him he only ever sees the good in people.
Me & my brother live 100 miles away, and my sister and other brother 50 miles away - I want to know that when she goes into the NH everything will be OK - but that isn't going to happen.
My mum was a carer (albeit for physically handicaped adults), but she always treated them with the respect they deserved. They didn't ask to be in this situation it just happened.
The people caring for them should remember - this could be them one day, and is this how they would want to be treated!!!!!
Sorry, it just makes me so cross.
Debby