The time has come to think about getting my mums headstone returned with the addition of dads inscription ideally I would have liked it returning in January a year since dad passed however when I approached my sister at the end of April this year her reply was plenty of time and she didn't want to discuss it. We had no idea how long it would take and now I'm told that they have so much work on more than usual that they cannot return the headstone until around May 2022, I am really disappointed. I emailed my sister to see if she was happy to contribute to the work needed and she's agreed I assumed we would split the cost equally but as she feels the cost of collecting and returning the stone to the grave ( not the actual work doing ) is unacceptable to her she is making a fuss and has 'deducted' what she thinks is a reasonable amount. I was told off because as per usual whatever I do is never good enough and she said I should have 'shopped around' before arranging the removal of the headstone clearly forgetting I was really unwell at the time of dads funeral. In all honesty I did just call the Memorial Company that did the headstone because dad had been happy with the stone he had picked for mum and we all agreed at the time that they had provided a good service it seemed natural to go back to them. I have said she can call around get some quotes and if she wants have the stone collected and I will pay half of what they quote her. Obviously she hasn't done that just said would now not be practical and confirmed she is not willing to contribute the same amount as me which she would be able to. I can't be bothered to email her back but have decided to just go ahead and I will pay the bit she doesn't want to. Unfortunately I am now stressed and angry not so much over the money as its for my mum and dad but her attitude, this is what contact with her does. I really can't afford to get stressed over this as have now been told I have an issue with the main aorta /vessel to my heart and I will need to go to the Cardiology department at the hospital for it to be assessed. My echocardiogram results done because of covid were delayed and GP chased them up this week. I thought because of my other test results being good and being discharged I was now ok. I am told by my GP the issue is not related to Covid and generally the echocardiogram results were good. Problem has been randomly picked up and likely would not have come to light at least not yet but its definitely something that needs assessment. GP says it may have been there for quite a long time but high blood pressure and stress are contributing factors to my risk of it becoming worse. I can't say I'm not worried because I am. Partner also has to go back as hospital has requested another CT Scan for investigation of potential cancer. I just wanted to have a moan here I'm struggling and I can't believe I have such a horrible sibling thank god its just this last thing to sort then she is out of my life forever..