Hi my husband Geoff has vascular dementia , which is gradually getting worse , so most things I take in my stride ,but the other day ,after a routine call from our youngest son (49) I was trying to have a conversation with Geoff about the brain operation which our son had 1 year ago, he is now well , but at the time it was traumatic for the whole family ,so to my surprise Geoff vehemently said nobody had told him about it , and said we never told him anything that was going on , which is of course untrue. It is always the unexpected remarks that take you by surprise , considering he doesn`t know who I am ,so why am I surprised???? Keep smiling everyone.