Hello
This question has probably been posted before numerous times. My 89yr old Mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia in 2017. Last week she was taken in to a local care home because we no longer feel it’s safe for her to be at home on her own. She has rung several times (one of the Carers makes the call for her) and she’s quite venomous towards my sister and me. Of course, it’s impossible to make her understand that she’s not safe at home, that only last week she agreed with the doctor that she’d like to go there, that its impossible to visit at the moment etc etc etc.
It is distressing to hear her speak this way. The conversation goes round and round in circles. I just don’t know how to handle the phone calls. She’s been a wonderful Mum and would have been distraught to know that one day she’d make me feel this way. I don’t know how to respond to her. Any suggestions please? Or any ideas of medical or mental health professionals who could advise me.
Thank you.
This question has probably been posted before numerous times. My 89yr old Mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia in 2017. Last week she was taken in to a local care home because we no longer feel it’s safe for her to be at home on her own. She has rung several times (one of the Carers makes the call for her) and she’s quite venomous towards my sister and me. Of course, it’s impossible to make her understand that she’s not safe at home, that only last week she agreed with the doctor that she’d like to go there, that its impossible to visit at the moment etc etc etc.
It is distressing to hear her speak this way. The conversation goes round and round in circles. I just don’t know how to handle the phone calls. She’s been a wonderful Mum and would have been distraught to know that one day she’d make me feel this way. I don’t know how to respond to her. Any suggestions please? Or any ideas of medical or mental health professionals who could advise me.
Thank you.