Well here we are Christmas eve and things could not be any more complicated. Today other half for the first time has been in his pyjamas all day , had morning meds and breakfast then that was it. Been standing in the front porch refusing food, drink and medication. Everytime I asked him anything I got abit of abuse so backed off. Finally at 1730 little man managed to get him to eat a mini cake laced with a lorazepam (which does not work effectively if consumed like this) but had no choice. Mood no better ate his dinner and has been with his grumpy head all evening. Now he is refusing to have his medication to bed, don't know what to do, what will the effect of him not having his antidepressants and anxiety/sleeping tablet have if he does not take them. So much for working hard to make christmas special for him and the kids, I don't know what the night will bring. Will hold out downstairs for as long as possible and may try again (says he will leave house when I have asked him before) don't want that, boys are out enjoying christmas eve don't want to to have to call them home early. Any ideas on computer for abit.......