Hi there, I am new to this talking point but now I have found it I would like some help please. I am carer and struggling with the problem of incontinence. It was just urine to start with but has now gone further. Had guests this weekend maybe this caused a bit of upset. went out for under an hour and came back to mess everywhere and I mean everywhere. So embarrassing in front of guests having to scrub, disinfect, boil wash clothes and bedding. Insist on showering twice. !