I was wondering if any one had done the life of their loved one for carers ? Mum is now one of the challenging residents in her nursing home. I want the staff who really are lovely to her to know the original MrsTerryN 's mum. All the fabulous things she did. I also don't want me to forget or have over ridden the memories of the mum I knew by the mum with dementia and 'challenging behaviours'