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@anxious annie @Woo2 xx I hope they start with inside ones too, think at the moment they are in a sort of semi covered deck area.
I rang the CH this morning to ask how mum was and see if I could talk to her. He said mum was in quite a good mood today but they'd offered her a shower and that didn't go down well, she wasn't having it apparently but apart from that he said she was ok. I asked if I could talk to her and he said he wasn't sure how she'd react cos you never can tell. I said I spoke to her on Monday and she was ok then but I know you never know how will go, fingers crossed she's in a good mood. He took phone up and passed it to woman up there and she took it to mum. She said It's your daughter on the phone, mum said Oh ok, and came on phone she said Hello, she sounded quite flat. I said Hello and asked if she was ok and mum said Yeah, I'm at our -(sis), but I'm coming tomorrow. I just said Ok and changed the subject and asked if she got her new glasses I dropped off. Mum said Yes love they're lovely, I asked if they fit ok and mum said they did. Then I said Did you get your goodies I sent too and mum asked What goodies? So I said I sent some crisps and chocolates in too and mum sort of half laughed and said Oh yeah you did, I joked I'm fattening you up for christmas and mum laughed and say Aye. Then mum asked Is Our -(sis) home , so I said Yes and then mum asked At her house? I said Yeah, and mum said Ok, alright then love I'll see you later bye. She said bye a couple more times and sounded like getting further away like she was putting phone down so I said Ok bye then. A moment later I heard the lady who took the phone in to mum say something to mum like something about being ok love? and then it went quiet. I thought mum was hanging up so I hung up my end but afterwards I thought I hadn't heard dial tone so I'm not sure if she had hung up or not but mum seemed to have finished with the conversation anyway. Mum sounded quite flat and bit confused saying she was at my sisters bless her and not in mood for chatting. I think it took them longer to take phone upstairs and into mum than we were actually talking. I hope lady who took phone didn't think I'd rushed mum off and hung up on her. If she was in room during our short conversation she'd have heard mum saying see you later and bye so hopefully she'll understand it was mum cutting things short but I don't know if she did, oh well it's done now.
I finished painting the bathroom today to give me something else to think about but now it's done and I'm sat I'm thinking bout mum again,. Hubby says he's going to put last episode of star wars on so it takes my mind off things. We missed going to see it when it came out at cinema as I was staying with mum then so we've not seen it yet and he's been desperate to see it bless him. We watched one before this again yesterday cos it's been quite a while since we saw it and I'd forgot what we were up to.
Hope your days have been ok x