Grrrrrrrrrr ??? just borrowing mums angry growl from the other day as this morning it fits my mood. Not sure why I’m annoyed really as was expecting this but I am.
Rang mum this morning to say I was setting off and she answered sounding sniffly.We talked about het sniffly nose coming and going then she Said You’re not thinking if coming are you? I said yes just about to set off. She told me I didn’t usually go at this time which I do, but she said its usually half eleven, we go later at weekends. She said she wanted to get her work done this morning and couldn’t if she had to sit talking to me. I said I didn’t mind het doing stuff while I was there, I could help her if she liked or she could do it on own if preferred but Mum said NO I want to do it on my own I’ll have to keep stopping to talk to you if you’re here. I said she didn’t need to I didn’t mind, but then she shouted I JUST WANT TO DO IT ON MY OWN so I said Ok I’ll come in an hour then.
I was really annoyed when we hung up, I was half expecting it as she’d asked ‘friend’ Yesterday morning Can you not come tomorrow ‘friend’ cos I want to get my work done and we’d talked about me helping and her wanting do it on own but I need take tablets so I’d asked hubby if she said it today could he take me over bit later. So I was half expecting her to say it this morning and was prepared to offer to go an hour later and see how that went but her anger and attitude annoyed me.
In one way I’m pleased she’s talking bout doing cleaning as lately only time she said she was going to do it has been as an excuse not to do it now or a way of getting on at me by saying me going has stopped her so fact she is actually saying going to do it now is good sign sertraline making her feel better and more motivated. I just wish it didn't come with stroppyness and she understood I have to go give her tablets.
I’m almost there and dreading reception I might get. I wonder how much she’ll actually have done as she is so slow and gets mixed up when she does anything. It can take her an hour do one job as keeps getting distracted or repeating same bit and she gets tired easy so keeps sitting down.
I wish I could drive and could have just popped in with tablet and then gone back for lunch ones. When mum says she wants to be on own and do it I’d love to say Ok I’ll not cone today and have a day at home myself but she can’t remember tablets or cook at dinnertime and would probably forget later on that she asked to be on her own and be upset and or annoyed that she’d been left on own.
I’ll have give her sertraline soon as arrive and hope when has lunch and takes galantamine it doesn’t make her feel sicky this afternoon like it has when taken close together before.
so grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Rang mum this morning to say I was setting off and she answered sounding sniffly.We talked about het sniffly nose coming and going then she Said You’re not thinking if coming are you? I said yes just about to set off. She told me I didn’t usually go at this time which I do, but she said its usually half eleven, we go later at weekends. She said she wanted to get her work done this morning and couldn’t if she had to sit talking to me. I said I didn’t mind het doing stuff while I was there, I could help her if she liked or she could do it on own if preferred but Mum said NO I want to do it on my own I’ll have to keep stopping to talk to you if you’re here. I said she didn’t need to I didn’t mind, but then she shouted I JUST WANT TO DO IT ON MY OWN so I said Ok I’ll come in an hour then.
I was really annoyed when we hung up, I was half expecting it as she’d asked ‘friend’ Yesterday morning Can you not come tomorrow ‘friend’ cos I want to get my work done and we’d talked about me helping and her wanting do it on own but I need take tablets so I’d asked hubby if she said it today could he take me over bit later. So I was half expecting her to say it this morning and was prepared to offer to go an hour later and see how that went but her anger and attitude annoyed me.
In one way I’m pleased she’s talking bout doing cleaning as lately only time she said she was going to do it has been as an excuse not to do it now or a way of getting on at me by saying me going has stopped her so fact she is actually saying going to do it now is good sign sertraline making her feel better and more motivated. I just wish it didn't come with stroppyness and she understood I have to go give her tablets.
I’m almost there and dreading reception I might get. I wonder how much she’ll actually have done as she is so slow and gets mixed up when she does anything. It can take her an hour do one job as keeps getting distracted or repeating same bit and she gets tired easy so keeps sitting down.
I wish I could drive and could have just popped in with tablet and then gone back for lunch ones. When mum says she wants to be on own and do it I’d love to say Ok I’ll not cone today and have a day at home myself but she can’t remember tablets or cook at dinnertime and would probably forget later on that she asked to be on her own and be upset and or annoyed that she’d been left on own.
I’ll have give her sertraline soon as arrive and hope when has lunch and takes galantamine it doesn’t make her feel sicky this afternoon like it has when taken close together before.
so grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
also mum was ok with you so it’s a big positive?. Well done , you are finding such good ways to distract and also help your mum . Hope the rest of the afternoon goes ok?X
