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How are you and your mum doing
@charliejack ? Hope you and your family are doing ok and staying safe x
Mums tuesday carer came this afternoon but next week is going to be her last visit, or at least for a while. She has a baby who used to be looked after by grandparents but since lock down they have been isolating, her husband was on furlough so he was looking after their little one when she was at work but he's just been asked to go back to work and starts again in a fortnight so she will now have to stay home to look after baby,
I'm not sure yet what's going to happen about mums visit if she'll be replaced, as she's only just found out, she's let care agency know but they won't have had time to sort anything out yet. Care manager is off today so I assume she'll be in touch in next few days with more information about what will happen. Mum has two different carers one for tuesday and one for thursday, they said that would make it easier to cover for illness and holidays but I don't know if thursday carer would be free to come every tuesday too, or if they might suggest sending another carer for tuesdays, or if there'll be anyone free to cover tuesdays especially in current climate. Whatever happens it'll mean a change for mum and me which is a shame. I dont' think mum was listening when carer mentioned it as she didn't react and was busy colouring.
It was an ok day while I was there, we did some colouring and watched a bit of tv. Mum was quite mixed up and repeaty but that's normal now and she was quite relaxed. She was asking if Our Andrea was married and then asking me if I am our Andrea and if I was her daughter and why didn't I call her mum, but she was calm and not upset when asking.
After lunch she asked if I was going home this afternoon and what I was going to be doing and when I said I was going to iron she said Oh I can't iron cos my iron and board aren't here. Do you think I ought to go and get them? She's still thinking she has another house and lots of her stuff is there bless her, once I told her she was fine but then asked again ten minutes later.
She was fine about carer coming today, she does seem to have accepted them coming which is good. It's a shame things are going to change. ? fingers crossed whatever care agency come up with it will be ok for mum.