My husband, aged 63, has recently become more confused , particularly during the night. He couldn’t find his way back to the bedroom and was very distressed. Yesterday, we arrived in a hotel where he used the bathroom floor as a toilet. He also did this last week in our home bathroom. I frantically managed to clean up the mess and bought disinfectant from a local store. My parents , both in their 80’s, are with us and v v supportive. I feel so guilty that they have to help me to manage him. I can no longer leave him alone. He has day care whilst Im at work, ((Im in a v demanding job, which I love), but I fear this isn’t enough. Any thoughts and advice?