Mum lives with us since dad died 14 months ago. Dad said please look after mum I'm worried about her memory. Dad was mums carer.
After the first few months it became evident that there was a problem. The GP agreed after 9 months so we have just seen the psychiatrist and confirmed dementia but awaiting CT scan for type.
My problem is my husband who has his own health issue needs a bilateral eye operation in December and I know I will struggle to look after both of the for a week. I have asked social services for a week respite care for my mum but am told she does not have enough in her personal budget?
I work full time and generally feel run down myself but want to do right by everyone, what can I do ? HELP
After the first few months it became evident that there was a problem. The GP agreed after 9 months so we have just seen the psychiatrist and confirmed dementia but awaiting CT scan for type.
My problem is my husband who has his own health issue needs a bilateral eye operation in December and I know I will struggle to look after both of the for a week. I have asked social services for a week respite care for my mum but am told she does not have enough in her personal budget?
I work full time and generally feel run down myself but want to do right by everyone, what can I do ? HELP