My father has had Dementia/Alzeheimers for almost three years. My mother is his carer and both are coming up to 80 this year. Until the end of last year we had no support and even now it is very little. I find its a mind field and my mother does not like admitting to people that she needs support. In the last 6 weeks dad has deteriated again. I try to spear to his social care worker but sometimes feel I am a"pain." I thought it would be easy to get help and support but I find this isn't the case or may I haven't found the right connections yet. Dad is incontinent and I have only just got support on this and hardly able to walk. No support on this at the moment so looking for suggestions. Any advise is appreciated as I am new to this.