.... I'm talking about muddles of a paperwork nature this time. Dad has dementia (I have POA) mum recovering from carer breakdown. When mum and dads house went up for sale I thought it'd be a good time to sort out their paperwork / wills etc - find out where things are and make sure they're safe.
So - first on the list, dads bank and savings accounts. Check - relatively easily registered myself as account holder. Next - the deeds. Mum says 'oh, the bank has those' so when I'm sorting the POA I asked them. Nope. Over to mum again. 'The solicitors must have the deeds then. That's where we went to get my name added to the deeds as originally they were only in dads name. They have our wills too.'
I found out during the process of selling the house that paper deeds aren't required if the property is on land registry, so that's ok. Thought I'd call the solicitor to find out about the wills. Not there. My brother took a file containing mum and dads paperwork to look through and they're not there either. What a b***dy mess ...
The only upside is that it makes me determined to get all my affairs in order so my daughter doesn't have to do any of this. Its hard enough dealing with dads dementia and mums meltdown ... without all this extra stress!
Arrrrggghhhhh! Just wanted a rant ... feel better now
So - first on the list, dads bank and savings accounts. Check - relatively easily registered myself as account holder. Next - the deeds. Mum says 'oh, the bank has those' so when I'm sorting the POA I asked them. Nope. Over to mum again. 'The solicitors must have the deeds then. That's where we went to get my name added to the deeds as originally they were only in dads name. They have our wills too.'
I found out during the process of selling the house that paper deeds aren't required if the property is on land registry, so that's ok. Thought I'd call the solicitor to find out about the wills. Not there. My brother took a file containing mum and dads paperwork to look through and they're not there either. What a b***dy mess ...
The only upside is that it makes me determined to get all my affairs in order so my daughter doesn't have to do any of this. Its hard enough dealing with dads dementia and mums meltdown ... without all this extra stress!
Arrrrggghhhhh! Just wanted a rant ... feel better now