Hi All
How do you approach this illness if the person concerned refuses to admit there is a problem ??
My mother , who is 73 has been growing steadily worse over the last 3 years. It began with the occasional forgetfulness but has now got to a stage that she doesn't know the day of the week, can't tell the time, can't remember how to cook or make a hot drink etc. My partner and I do her shopping for her and get into her each day....but we both work so we can't be there 24/7.
But still Mother says there is nothing wrong with her !!!! She borders on agressive if the subject of her health is raised !!!! A year or so back we got Social Services to pay her a visit while we were both there......the lady said there was definitely a problem but as my Mother refused any help there was nothing that Social could do !!! After the Social lady left the abuse we both took was terrible and we were acussed of trying to 'put her away' !!
Do we really have to wait until something terrible happens before we can help her ??...or does anyone have an idea or two that could relieve the situation ?? Our local GP is useless and the condition seems to be worsening by the day.
Sorry to ramble on.....but any help would be most useful !!!!
Steve
How do you approach this illness if the person concerned refuses to admit there is a problem ??
My mother , who is 73 has been growing steadily worse over the last 3 years. It began with the occasional forgetfulness but has now got to a stage that she doesn't know the day of the week, can't tell the time, can't remember how to cook or make a hot drink etc. My partner and I do her shopping for her and get into her each day....but we both work so we can't be there 24/7.
But still Mother says there is nothing wrong with her !!!! She borders on agressive if the subject of her health is raised !!!! A year or so back we got Social Services to pay her a visit while we were both there......the lady said there was definitely a problem but as my Mother refused any help there was nothing that Social could do !!! After the Social lady left the abuse we both took was terrible and we were acussed of trying to 'put her away' !!
Do we really have to wait until something terrible happens before we can help her ??...or does anyone have an idea or two that could relieve the situation ?? Our local GP is useless and the condition seems to be worsening by the day.
Sorry to ramble on.....but any help would be most useful !!!!
Steve