Where do we start?

mumofthree

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Apr 11, 2011
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Lancashire
My Dad went into hospital last Tuesday following a 4 day spell of high paranoia. Since then, his dose of Risperidone has been increased and has helped....there is still paranoia but to a lesser degree. He lives alone (Mum died 18 months ago) with carers 3 times per day, and was only diagnosed at the beginning of April but has deteriorated rapidly since.

I spoke to his doctor today who feels it would be untenable for him to return home due to the paranoia, his levels of confusion and disorientation, plus unrelated pain management/falls.

She plans to involve SS to organise a placement initially for respite, but with a view to it becoming long term.

So, two issues. One is practical stuff - do they assign him a home or do we have a say in where he goes? How do we organise this and how is it funded?

The second is the emotional side....telling Dad, but also the fact that although we know it's the right thing for his own safety it feels we are taking away his freedom and making decisions about his life he won't want.
 

Christin

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Jun 29, 2009
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Somerset
Hello mumofthree, I am so sorry to read that your dad may need permanent care, this is such a huge step for you all to take.

I have listed a couple of AS factsheets which may offer some practical help to you.

http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/site/scripts/document_pdf.php?documentID=150

http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/site/scripts/document_pdf.php?documentID=125

Maybe, to make things easier for your dad, you could just mention the respite and not the permanent care. I believe you should have some choice about the home, but you can be guided by the assessment as to what sort of care he needs.

My very best wishes to you all. Please let us know how you get on xx