I am age 62 and my mothers has mixed dementia. My mother has lived with us for the past four years. We had a memory nurse and consultant visit us at home who diagnosed the mixed dementia this was nearly 4 years ago. My mum is now very bad and has no memory retenison at all has very poor mobility can only move from chair to wheeled chair then my husband and l lift her into bed and also lost her bladder control . I buy all her pads etc but was hoping someone may know where I can get the pads cheaper. I have been paying £38 for a pack of 30 which I think is expensive even if they are made by tenna. I had read lots of your fact sheet and would say mum is going into the later stages of dementia. As mum doesn't know she can't walk and will just try to get up and walk means I am now with her 24/7 as I don't feel she is safe to be left. I was wondering if I could get someone to sit in letting me go out for a couple of hours or will this be to unsettling . I have approached a local care service who have said that they could come and keep her company and as it's not care it would only be a cost of £17 a hour but I am not sure if it's worth the risk of unsettling her. Any advice please xx
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