Confused, I recently had a meeting with SS,CPN and Carers re mom, who currently lives at home with vascular dementia, the top and bottom of the conversation was that we need to be looking at care homes for mom to go into,but no idea of when this may take place was given, although mom is getting worse by the week, I am just totally confused of how to go about this, do we just put her on waiting lists, how do I find out abut financing it, she does not own her own home and has no savings, has she had a community care assessment?, I have no idea,they havesuggested we meet again the middle of Jan 2015, but what if moms gets much worse inbetween and they decide she needs to go into the care home likenow, I don't want her just being put in any one of them, please help I am finding this boggling many thanks x