My Dad has really gone down hill over the last few weeks. He doesn't really speak at all now and has double incontinence. He can still walk but is really struggling. We have now stepped up the carers that visit and they now call 4 times a day as up until this mum (83) was pretty much coping with everything. I'm concerned that we are doing the right thing in still keeping him at home. We all want him to stay at home for as long as possible but are we doing the right thing in making this decision. Any thoughts on this would be much appreciated.