As a family we have the hugest repect for my mum the person ,mother ,wife she is and has been
BUT
As a family we have jokes now and then and have found humour in certain things that have happeend ,does not mean we care for her less or respect her any less .Just as a family ,humour has always been a way of lightening out hearts and helping deal with certain situations and I make no appologies for that
One example ,When my dad was laid in bed in his final fight with with cancer ,he was on a special inflatable bed to help ease soars ect . My sister was on her shift ( we all took it in turns so he was never alone ) and she needed to plug something in so pulled a plug out and suddenly dads bed started to sink .My sister panicked and ran into the corridor shouting for help because " the beds eating me dad "
On hearing this tale from my sister and staff on the ward ,we all roared with laughter .didnt mean we found it funny that dad was ill ,didnt mean we thought cancer was funny ,didnt make us horrible (in my opinion )
I just feel it is human to use humour to overcome