What's there, when there appears to be nothing left ...

Discussion in 'I have a partner with dementia' started by kindred, Jul 6, 2019.

  1. Lady M

    Lady M Registered User

    Sep 15, 2018
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    Female
    Essex
    Your words and wisdom on TP have touched, inspired and comforted many.
    May you now find some comfort knowing that those same persons are united with you in your sorrow.
    Wishing you peace and fortitude x
    x
     
  2. notsogooddtr

    notsogooddtr Registered User

    Jul 2, 2011
    835
    Please accept my condolences. Wishing you strength in the weeks and months ahead. Your dear husband is at peace now, time to take care of yourself
     
  3. Bunpoots

    Bunpoots Registered User

    Apr 1, 2016
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    Nottinghamshire
  4. anxious annie

    anxious annie Registered User

    Jan 2, 2019
    126
    So very sorry to hear this sad news, Geraldine. Wishing you strength in the months ahead. Sending love and hugs xx Take time for yourself, then please keep in touch with all your friends on TP. You have so much to offer with your kind, wise words xxx
     
  5. AliceA

    AliceA Registered User

    May 27, 2016
    2,405
    My grandmother said she was always aware of my grandfather helping her, in life he had been gassed so was very poorly. I too when very young felt his loving presence, this was long before my grandmother spoke to me.
    I think loving energy is quite tangible, I know it does not entirely replace what we have lost but it can comfort.
     
  6. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,561
    Kent
    I'm so sorry to hear your sad news @kindred and hope it will be some consolation for you to know you gave him all you could to make his final months the best they could be.
     
  7. Gladys1946

    Gladys1946 Registered User

    Feb 17, 2019
    24
    No it's not. I feel exactly the same today.
     
  8. Gladys1946

    Gladys1946 Registered User

    Feb 17, 2019
    24
    My condolences to you Geraldine. X
     
  9. Sarasa

    Sarasa Registered User

    Apr 13, 2018
    489
    So sorry Geraldine. xxx

    They that love beyond the world cannot be separated by it.
    Death cannot kill what never dies.
    Nor can spirits ever be divided, that love and live in the same divine principle, the root and record of their friendship.
    If absence be not death, neither is theirs.
    Death is but crossing the world, as friends do the seas; they live in one another still.
    For they must needs be present, that love and live in that which is omnipresent.
    In this divine glass they see face to face; and their converse is free, as well as pure.
    This is the comfort of friends, that though they may be said to die, yet their friendship and society are, in the best sense, ever present, because immortal.”


    William Penn
     
  10. 2jays

    2jays Registered User

    Jun 4, 2010
    11,603
    West Midlands
    Thinking of you. xxx
     
  11. mickeyplum

    mickeyplum Registered User

    Feb 22, 2018
    95
    Many thanks to all of you for your understanding, especially Geraldine who is suffering recent loss but found it in her heart to respond.
    That's the thing I love about TP, you can speak freely about your emotions knowing no one will judge you. I'm feeling a bit brighter now thanks to being able to offload to you all.
     
  12. Guzelle

    Guzelle Registered User

    Aug 27, 2016
    394
    Sheffield
    So sorry for your sad loss. Sending love and hugs x
     
  13. Justmary

    Justmary Registered User

    Jul 12, 2018
    48
    Female
    West Midlands
    I'm so sorry Geraldine. If you can, please stay with us. You always make us feel better, and we love you. Mary xx
     
  14. Pipeth

    Pipeth Registered User

    Jan 13, 2018
    124
    Female
    Northamptonshire
    Sending heartfelt sympathy and love, you have been a shining light on here for us all, you would be greatly missed. Take care.
     
  15. Susan11

    Susan11 Registered User

    Nov 18, 2018
    1,500
    So sorry. I always felt uplifted by your stories of what happened in Keith's Care home. You put so much effort for Keith and the other residents. Take care of yourself at this difficult time. Best wishes Susan
     
  16. Goldie Girl

    Goldie Girl Registered User

    Oct 20, 2018
    39
    Female
    West Midlands
    I am so sorry to hear your sad news Geraldine, your Blue Eyed Boy will always be in your heart. You are both in my prayers. Love Kerryx
     
  17. Lilac Blossom

    Lilac Blossom Registered User

    Oct 6, 2014
    520
    Scotland
    God bless and comfort you at this sad time, Geraldine.
    Love - Lilac blossom x
     
  18. reedysue

    reedysue Registered User

    Nov 4, 2014
    4,604
    Scotland
    I am so sorry to hear your sad news, sending you my condolences x
     
  19. Starbright

    Starbright Registered User

    Apr 8, 2018
    426
    Female
    Thinking of you @kindred I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved blue eyed boy ...and I thought about the poem from Carve Her Name With Pride posted on TP .This is the last verse of that poem .....

    A sleep I shall have
    A rest I shall have
    Yet death will be but a pause
    For the peace of my years in the long green grass
    Will be yours and yours and yours

    My husband and I have known and loved this poem after seeing the film over 60 odd years ago.
    Take care of yourself A x
     
  20. Loisand

    Loisand Registered User

    Dec 25, 2017
    128
    So very sorry Kindred aka Geraldine, my thoughts, love and hugs are with you all the way, xx
     

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