I know pwd differ in progression and symptoms but I need to know what to expect. I don't want to put my mum in a home and at the moment, that's not something I have to imminently consider . She spends all her time in bed ( which she's done for a large part of her life) due to a mood disorder and of late a painful hip. Her memory is bad, she recognises my sister and I, and grandchildren but doesn't know who we are ( if that makes sense). 12 months ago she could shower and dress herself and organise food but her day and night differentiation was getting muddled ( now she has no idea whatsoever. She now needs food bringing to her and cannot shower independently but she can toilet herself .
She's very confused ( thinks her telly has different things on than anyone else's ) and asks the same thing over and over .
I'm guessing she's in late middle stage, her ability to manage her finances and medication ended around 2.5 years ago .
Do all pwd become incontinent and violent? I'm wondering how much longer will this phase last , how much longer til I loose another piece of her. We've never had an easy relationship so it's more than ironic that she's ended up living with me.
She hasn't even received a formal diagnosis because years ago she refused referrals to the memory clinic and after watching the news the other day ( about Barbara Windsor) she asked me fearfully whether she had dementia ( I said, no). She thinks her bad memory is down to her age and has said that for years.
She's very confused ( thinks her telly has different things on than anyone else's ) and asks the same thing over and over .
I'm guessing she's in late middle stage, her ability to manage her finances and medication ended around 2.5 years ago .
Do all pwd become incontinent and violent? I'm wondering how much longer will this phase last , how much longer til I loose another piece of her. We've never had an easy relationship so it's more than ironic that she's ended up living with me.
She hasn't even received a formal diagnosis because years ago she refused referrals to the memory clinic and after watching the news the other day ( about Barbara Windsor) she asked me fearfully whether she had dementia ( I said, no). She thinks her bad memory is down to her age and has said that for years.