Life is far from normal here now and although I want to make my first priority keeping my husband happy I now have an internal conflict. At my last Carers Assessment they stressed how important it was for me to have time for myself – easier said than done nowadays! I had given up my gym membership last year but they persuaded me to renew it which I did. My club is a few minutes walk from my house on a very quiet housing estate - so easy for me to go to but my husband now does not want me to go there "as its not safe for me to walk on my own"! (I am 61 years old)! When I do go to the Club it is only during the daytime and I am only out for just over an hour. Should I ignore him and continue going or just give it up. He is always so happy to see me when I get back - you would think I had been away for a week! Has anyone experienced this kind of behaviour before?