Good morning everyone
Went to visit mom yesterday. She was tearful as usual but that was not my concern. Recently she has stopped caring about herself in that she refuses to have her hair done at the carehome and seems to be wearing the same clothes for about a week and they look decidedly grubby.
I know that mom can be stubborn about changing her clothes but would I be right in asking the carers to make sure that she changes. They are very good and I don't want to upset them. The other thing is that they seem to wash everything on a hot wash and mom's cardigans in particular are shrinking. We obviously understand that we need to replace mom's things regularly especially her underwear, for reasons on slight incontinence, but we cannot afford to replace her cardigans all the time. This seems an unimportant thing given the illness mom has but yesterday she looked so grubby and unkempt, in fact she was the scruffiest resident there. We brought up the fact that she needs her hair done but her reply as always was I will have it done when I get home.
Sorry to ask your advice about unimportant issues but they have been troubling me.
PS. The new tablets haven't put in an appearance yet.
Thanks Jacky
Went to visit mom yesterday. She was tearful as usual but that was not my concern. Recently she has stopped caring about herself in that she refuses to have her hair done at the carehome and seems to be wearing the same clothes for about a week and they look decidedly grubby.
I know that mom can be stubborn about changing her clothes but would I be right in asking the carers to make sure that she changes. They are very good and I don't want to upset them. The other thing is that they seem to wash everything on a hot wash and mom's cardigans in particular are shrinking. We obviously understand that we need to replace mom's things regularly especially her underwear, for reasons on slight incontinence, but we cannot afford to replace her cardigans all the time. This seems an unimportant thing given the illness mom has but yesterday she looked so grubby and unkempt, in fact she was the scruffiest resident there. We brought up the fact that she needs her hair done but her reply as always was I will have it done when I get home.
Sorry to ask your advice about unimportant issues but they have been troubling me.
PS. The new tablets haven't put in an appearance yet.
Thanks Jacky