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Hello
Possibly posting into wrong box, wrong sort of message but I reckon people visiting this site can probably cope with anything. so please be patient with me.
Anyone got advice about how to help elderly father visiting his wife, who has dementia, in hospital at least twice a day (for at least an hour at a time) and then getting very, very upset because she begs to go home with him, or out in the car with him. Then accuses him of having affairs. All unreal. He gets so upset.
Also, anyone got experience of what you can do if someone has dementia and has not done a will, nor arranged enduring power of attorney (fortunately has very little money and no capital or property). Are there any ways we can help my father to organise what little money he has (also no capital or property) so that it is not 'frozen' in the event of Mum's death. He is worrying about it all.
Also any tips on breaking through the deadlock the hospital wanting her out in three weeks and no residential nursing home places available for at least ten??? She is local authority funded (small contribution using OAP and Pension Credit)
Many thanks
Deva
Hello
Possibly posting into wrong box, wrong sort of message but I reckon people visiting this site can probably cope with anything. so please be patient with me.
Anyone got advice about how to help elderly father visiting his wife, who has dementia, in hospital at least twice a day (for at least an hour at a time) and then getting very, very upset because she begs to go home with him, or out in the car with him. Then accuses him of having affairs. All unreal. He gets so upset.
Also, anyone got experience of what you can do if someone has dementia and has not done a will, nor arranged enduring power of attorney (fortunately has very little money and no capital or property). Are there any ways we can help my father to organise what little money he has (also no capital or property) so that it is not 'frozen' in the event of Mum's death. He is worrying about it all.
Also any tips on breaking through the deadlock the hospital wanting her out in three weeks and no residential nursing home places available for at least ten??? She is local authority funded (small contribution using OAP and Pension Credit)
Many thanks
Deva