Hi there, this is the first time I've thought to come to a site like this and its been good reading other peoples experiences.
We think my Nana has a type of dementia due to a series of very small, un-noticable strokes. Although I have to say the doctors haven't been overly helpful in actually diagnosing anything. We've done alot of reading up on it ourselves and the books have been helpful. But, as I'm sure most people find, your relatives 'ways' can be very different to anything you read about. Nanas new phase for now seems to be throwing stuff out. Dad goes down everyday to give her cigarettes and make sure she has everything she needs, and nearly everyday theres something new in the bin. Whether it be sheets from her bed or ornaments from her cabinet in the front room (most of which were my Grandpas ) We don't know how to stop this, except maybe removing all her things that may be worth anything and replacing them with cheaper things. She gets confused with the date too. She had her Christmas tree up at the beginning of Feb, and when we tried to tell her it was 2 months since Christmas she got quite verbally aggresive.
She hasn't done anything....so far....to put herself at any risk, but do we wait until she does something really silly, or is it time to start considering having her placed somewhere where people can keep an eye on her full time? The thing is, if we suggested this to her she would absolutely flip! Shes also refusing showers from her carer, telling her my Mum has given her it already....Mum hasn't!
I've rambled quite alot here, but as I said, its the first time I've really been able to say stuff like this and have people REALLY understand where I'm coming from.
Thankyou for listening.
Louise xx
We think my Nana has a type of dementia due to a series of very small, un-noticable strokes. Although I have to say the doctors haven't been overly helpful in actually diagnosing anything. We've done alot of reading up on it ourselves and the books have been helpful. But, as I'm sure most people find, your relatives 'ways' can be very different to anything you read about. Nanas new phase for now seems to be throwing stuff out. Dad goes down everyday to give her cigarettes and make sure she has everything she needs, and nearly everyday theres something new in the bin. Whether it be sheets from her bed or ornaments from her cabinet in the front room (most of which were my Grandpas ) We don't know how to stop this, except maybe removing all her things that may be worth anything and replacing them with cheaper things. She gets confused with the date too. She had her Christmas tree up at the beginning of Feb, and when we tried to tell her it was 2 months since Christmas she got quite verbally aggresive.
She hasn't done anything....so far....to put herself at any risk, but do we wait until she does something really silly, or is it time to start considering having her placed somewhere where people can keep an eye on her full time? The thing is, if we suggested this to her she would absolutely flip! Shes also refusing showers from her carer, telling her my Mum has given her it already....Mum hasn't!
I've rambled quite alot here, but as I said, its the first time I've really been able to say stuff like this and have people REALLY understand where I'm coming from.
Thankyou for listening.
Louise xx