Hey everyone. Could anyone offer advice on what to do with my mother over the Christmas period. We have a very strained relationship and do not get on. It has been brought to my attention about her loss of memory and confusion and as much as our relationship isn't good I have been trying to get things in place so that she isn't going to left vulnerable and in danger.
My question is that I'm wondering what's going to happen this Christmas. I can count on one hand the amount of Christmases I have spent with my mother and I really don't want to start now. Up until recently she had worked full time so always spent her Christmases at work.
I'm unable to request leave over the Xmas period and It's not definite that I'll have it off work anyway but could anyone suggest what I could do. I live over 200 miles away too so driving up and down for the day isnt an option. I'm her only child in the uk and so it has been left with me to do everything so far.
Is there a anyone that Gff as been in a similar situation or offer some pearls of wisdom. Thank you in advance.
Roz
My question is that I'm wondering what's going to happen this Christmas. I can count on one hand the amount of Christmases I have spent with my mother and I really don't want to start now. Up until recently she had worked full time so always spent her Christmases at work.
I'm unable to request leave over the Xmas period and It's not definite that I'll have it off work anyway but could anyone suggest what I could do. I live over 200 miles away too so driving up and down for the day isnt an option. I'm her only child in the uk and so it has been left with me to do everything so far.
Is there a anyone that Gff as been in a similar situation or offer some pearls of wisdom. Thank you in advance.
Roz