What to do after a death is what l keep asking myself daily.My wife died 3 months ago after going through a hell of a journey with Alzheimers for 11 years ( 6 years l looked after her and then 5 years in different Care homes ). Now l know l am on my own its the last stage of the journey for me. What do l do now ? We were married for over 55 years and its not easy to deal with her no longer being there. While she was still alive l still had a role of visiting her and making sure she was being treated right. I have no friends and no contact with family. .Now l have no purpose. I am bored and lonely know l must do something . All the people l talk to about this are married with children and grand children they are not in my situation. They tell me to go out and meet other people some say they will pray for me. l am in my mid 70s its not easy to go out and make friends l feel like l have just left school again looking for new mates. l have not mentioned grief ? l have had a lot of grief over my wifes journey with this terrible decease its a relief in the end for the both of us. Your comments please .