Hi I’m a new member, my mum has vascular dementia, diagnosed last year (2018) but has had noticeable symptoms for about 4 years. I live next door to her, which is great in one way but I do not get any peace. She just wants me to stay with her all the time. She comes round at 7.30 each day and won’t go home till 10.30ish at night. I can’t even go to the loo without her coming to see where I am ... says I’ve abandoned her ♀️