My Dad and my brother were visiting today. My Dad hasn't been well enough to make the 150 mile journey for some years. Mum didn't seem to understand who was visiting. Mum and Dad have been divorced for many years. She got very agitated before they arrived. Kept trying to leave the house saying she had to take her coat home. She was home. She looked out of the window and asked me if the orange car belonged to my sister. I said, Mum, I don't have a sister, that's *******'s car. My daughter's. I was getting very nervous about how the visit was going to go. My other brother was also going to pop in with his son. This was a lot of people for Mum to deal with. As soon as people started arriving she turned back into the person she had been before she had dementia! She was coherent, making conversation, reminiscing, laughing at jokes etc. My daughter and I just kept looking at each other and wondering how has this happened. When we were in the kitchen she actually said to me, "I wish we were the visitors and could have this Nanny all the time." I said it made me feel like a liar because I had told everyone how much she had deteriorated recently.
As soon as everyone had gone she changed back again. Almost immediately. She was taking the back off the tv remote and I asked her why. She said she couldn't get any fire out of it. I said I should hope not. She asked how she could light her cigarettes then. She hasn't smoked for a couple of years. I said it wasn't a lighter but she wouldn't have it. I went upstairs and suddenly the tv was blaring. I ran back downstairs and Mum had turned it up to 90! She said she couldn't hear what they were saying.
Has anyone else experienced this? I wish I could recreate the scene from today so that Mum stayed like that all the time. It was quite freaky in a way.
As soon as everyone had gone she changed back again. Almost immediately. She was taking the back off the tv remote and I asked her why. She said she couldn't get any fire out of it. I said I should hope not. She asked how she could light her cigarettes then. She hasn't smoked for a couple of years. I said it wasn't a lighter but she wouldn't have it. I went upstairs and suddenly the tv was blaring. I ran back downstairs and Mum had turned it up to 90! She said she couldn't hear what they were saying.
Has anyone else experienced this? I wish I could recreate the scene from today so that Mum stayed like that all the time. It was quite freaky in a way.