Hello I am so relieved to find this forum, I've got so many questions! My mum is late stage vascular dementia and this stage has happened so rapidly, I'm scared for her. She has just this week, moved into to a lovely nursing home, where she is being so well cared for, compared to the awful respite home she has been in for the last five weeks. The Manager of the nursing home has invited us to a meeting to discuss her end of life care next week and I'm not sure what to expect or what things I should be asking for. I know I do not want her resuscitated or drip fed, but what else should I be thinking of, or asking for? I know different people want different things for their loved ones, but I would be really grateful to hear any of your thoughts or experiences with this. We never discussed any of this with her and now it's too late sadly. She in no way can make any decisions for herself.