Hi all
My mum has alzheimers which has deteriated over the last couple of years.
Mum calls me in tears asking where my dad is, he passed away 5 years ago. Mum hides her keys and purse, then gets distressed thinking someone has been in the house and stolen them. She gets very upset when she is confused and doesn't remember that we have been to see her an hour after we have left, so she constantly feels lonely.
Mum lives alone and has carers in three times a day. Myself and family go in around three times a week, and I speak to mum on the phone two or three times a day.
I am in a turmoil as to whether mum should go into full time care, but I know that she would be distressed and confused , or should I get a full time live in carer in mums house. Has anyone else tried a live in carer and where would I start in looking for one?
My mum has alzheimers which has deteriated over the last couple of years.
Mum calls me in tears asking where my dad is, he passed away 5 years ago. Mum hides her keys and purse, then gets distressed thinking someone has been in the house and stolen them. She gets very upset when she is confused and doesn't remember that we have been to see her an hour after we have left, so she constantly feels lonely.
Mum lives alone and has carers in three times a day. Myself and family go in around three times a week, and I speak to mum on the phone two or three times a day.
I am in a turmoil as to whether mum should go into full time care, but I know that she would be distressed and confused , or should I get a full time live in carer in mums house. Has anyone else tried a live in carer and where would I start in looking for one?