re: what next
Hi, Robbo, I guess I'm going to answer this a little differently from what's already been said because when my husband was diagnosed 7 years ago at 47 and I asked myself that question 'what do I do next' along with the practical advice I needed, what worried me the most was ..what do 'I' do next...me the person. I know at that stage there was a lot of helpful advice about coping and getting help and support, but I seemed to be just nodding and smiling and not taking anything in , because in my head all I could hear was....... this is not real, it doesn't make sense , it can't be happening. Maybe you're a bit more' together 'than I was , but if you do find yourself in that same state of denial from my experience what happens next is you panic you cry and ask your self how your going to get through, and then you come to this point when you realise that you've got a long hard journey ahead of you , I used to liken it to those pioneer women in the olden days, they did tremendous things against unspeakable odds and were just ordinary women like us going off into the unknown. Your inner strenghth like theirs is still untapped, and so if you ever feel it's too hard you can't go on ,think of those pioneer women, because now you're one of them too. cheers Daizee