Thanks For That
OK, you've had sympthy - now is time for tough talk! said someone.I'm sorry but i don't know what that means. Feels like a smack in theface to me.have had the tough talk for years now, and am like soemone else i read today sending letters left right and crntre, and phoning and asking why , when , where. So am doing all i can at the moment.
When I said ""i'll see what i can do." Which means usualy i won't try to do anything, and i can't see anyway because i can't be bothered to make the effort to look." .... i was quoting the socialworker and myreaction to her- not me, not me, i wasn't meaning that i can't be botherd to make an effort, cos i can and do and wjll stillcontinue to do. i wasn't meaning that i was so depressed that i cant be bothered. i may be dpressed, so must be we alll sometimes.
I am no experienced at this web, so cannnot open upand revele all so pleese give me timne to get used to the websight, so that i can just take freom it what i need at the moment. when i asked what is thisthing you alll call support, i didn't just mean support here on alz websight, but when i am told - i am a support worker [- it makes me wonder what they mean by support, so sorry if i have not esplained myself so far. I will on day be able to dothat.
Ellie, i have found your thread today, and i know that you have sense of humour liek mine, and i also wish they wd just tell the truth. I listened today to radio 4 woman's hour and the program at 12 oclock and i thought what a waste of time they were, just let ellie and me tell htem what we want which is honesty and truth and decent talk.
Doreen - thats how i feel too - just tell us the truth. tell us if yo can't do anything to support us to give us whatever we need when we need it. i can't be doign with the rubbishtalk, the lies, the promisses, the ... "i'll see what i can do".
my friend today did phone socialworker and give her a large bit of my thinkingin, so just wait and see, maybe one day we will move farward.
ellie please call me VCB it is my initials!