- Jun 27, 2006
VCB - it is helpful that you have clarified that you weren't referring to yourself when you made the "can't be bothered to look" reference. Now it would be even more helpful if you could indicate your approximate location and your relationship to the person you are caring for. The former because we have members all over the country who might be able to give you specific direction, the latter because it can be help to see the whole picture. At the very least it's useful to know whether we're talking about England, Scotland, Wales or NI since systems are different everywhere.